Give and get sometimes do not work together

Assalamualaikum...

Give - Something that we share, we distribute or whatsoever you think it is.

Get - Something that we receive from others or whatsoever you think it is.

My definitions of that two words.

Do you get it? Please get it.

Guys, after what i have experienced before, give and get, sometimes, did not work together. But not always yaa.

Let us take some examples.

People worked very hard for something, giving their best efforts. In the end, they got an ordinary thing as a result.

My conclusion : It's fine, there must be a reason for not getting the best result ever. But believe Allah, trust Him, He will give them a better thing in the future. who knows? Allah knows it. Have faith that, Allah wants us to be grateful and keep giving the best efforts. As it's a great test for us actually. NEVER GIVE UP.

People have given a lot in the relationship with boyfriend or girlfriend. But in the end, they broke up and the relationship didn't last.

My conclusion : It's okay to break up with people, as long as we do not break up with Allah. Allah is still with us no matter what. If we break up with our boyfriend or girlfriend, do try to recall what we have done with them. Were we doing a lot of sins and bad things with them? Were we? If yes, it means that Allah doesn't want us to keep doing that sins, Allah loves us. Upgrade ourselves then, never look back, move forward, leave all those sins, repent to Allah. O Allah, alhamdulillah for loving me.

People gave everything, willing to do many things in order to be liked by those they like. In the end, the ones they like have liked another ones. They did not get those people's love in return.

My conclusion : It's okay, Allah has prepared us the better ones to take a good care of us, to like us, to love us. Allah wants us to upgrade ourselves first, before He gives us the best ones. Just have patience.

3 examples has been given. More examples could be written actually. But i would like you all to think them on your own. Always try to relate every hardness and each sadness with the blessed happiness later, in the future. Allah will test us first in order to strengthen our IMAN.

Sometimes, you give, but you do not get something back in return.
It's okay. It's better to be this way; we give, we pray, Allah gives, we get better.

See the difference? Sometimes we only gave, but we didn't pray, we didn't ask for Allah's help. Do a correction then. So that we'll get something better.

I'm just an ordinary person who always try to improve myself. Thanks.

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